Friday, 9 November 2007

Love or Lust

Hubby took me out for a movie date yesterday :) I told hubby I wanted to watch this movie ,Stardust , after seeing its short clip during Resident Evil.. I must say I didn't expect it to be a love story movie. Anyway, I love it as it was funny and it's a love movie!

I think this movie is suitable for couples, in the sense it made u think about what is love all about actually... It makes you ponder is it love or lust that you have at this very stage of your love lives! This movie also can be a point of reference for those who are about to embarke into marriage life.

Love or lust? U can be rest assured that it is love u have there when you are willing to sacrifice anything for the other half. U will find yourself willingly (without realising it so much initially) to make the time, spend your money and give your energy just to make that someone happy.... Of course we do this to our best friends. But this time, u will be doing it with that very extra special feelings that u yourself can't described nor expressed into words...

And it is love when u can accept that person at a face value ( ni mcm accounting jargon pulak!).. U find yourself accepting the person's bad points which is actually tolerable to your standards but much to the dislikes of your best friends! I found this happening to most of my friends and collegues... I guess this situation is what we can term it as completing each other's needs & characters .. Just like in that tom cruise's movie "You completes me ! " Hmmm! Until today I found myself saying it to my hubby . Be it in our happy times and bad times. Its the best assurance when our marriage is tested by God .

To be in love , to found love is the very special gifts from The Almighty to all of us.... And it is so sweet when love found you when u are not looking for it... I think this situation is the best things that can happened to any one of us... The best gifts also to those who has lost one ...

As it is not easy to find love, I salute those single status people who are making the extra miles just to meet and know other people ... It is never an easy matter making that bold steps nor going through the routines of getting to know new people again.. This was what I saw last nite when me& hubby went to his friends' deeparaya open house. This chap who is my hubby's & host's friend was giving himself a chance of seeing some other girl who is a friend of another hubby's & host's friend . This guy is a nice person la ..Not like the some playboy la.. What I like about him is that he is willing to open out himself to see other people after an unsuccessfull relationship. I know he is looking for some nice girl to settle down. Just that he wasn't that lucky in that department yet... And he didn't mind when the girl he was going to give a call later is one year older than him... Talk about giving others and yourself a chance too..!

To other's who are still have not found their soulmates, go easy on yourself when meeting new people.. I find it easy when we dont put any benchmarks or criterias when meeting new people. The road in front of us will be a bit rocky when we grade people by our benchmarks.. We wouldn't want others to do the same things to us... Give others a chance as we want to be given the same chance by others. I know there are certain single people outthere who sticked this " I wanna find mysoulmates" into their heads when meeting new people.. This kind of attitude is actually not benefitting them at all.. It's better to go out just for the sake of meeting someone new. Who knows if that person has another friend who could be your soulmates...

Have a marvellous weekend peps!

2 comments:

Aidan's Mommy said...

i wish i could just go watch movie, now with Adnan around it is a bit difficult to leave him.. bestnye if i earn Oprah's money so i could built my own cinema.. hehhe

For me : Love

emly2175 said...

Dot, u'll get to this later once Adnan dah besar sikit..