How lucky we are if we were advised and told by either our parents or by someone we trust on the important and logic reason why we should find prospective husband or wife based on religion. This I am referring to Muslims.
Of course it is mentioned in the Alquran on how to choose your partner ie what is the criteria one should choosed based upon.
But even if we know, nobody did say the logic behinds it..or our minds just don't want to accept it . And ignore it like most of the times.
So choose your partner because of his/her religion. This means choose a person who has great understanding of the religion and all its teachings.
With that , only after what had happened to someone dearest to me, do I fully understand the logic behind it.. but then, it's too late for my dear friend to change the past. You can just turn the clock back and reset everything when this is about your marriage and kids are involved.
But things would be different had my friend choose her partner first based on religion. From my observations on friends marriage, I noticed that having a spouse that has great and depth understanding of religion does help a lot with the marriage.
And this is different for those who aren't.
So many people fall in love with the outer beauty..some do get lucky to fall in love with a person who has both beauty and depth religion beliefs.
But when marriage get sour when your spouse suddenly changed from good to evil, not much you can do actually. You either try to save your marriage or divorce. And for a Muslim, divorce is one thing that Allah hates.
Of course it is mentioned in the Alquran on how to choose your partner ie what is the criteria one should choosed based upon.
But even if we know, nobody did say the logic behinds it..or our minds just don't want to accept it . And ignore it like most of the times.
So choose your partner because of his/her religion. This means choose a person who has great understanding of the religion and all its teachings.
With that , only after what had happened to someone dearest to me, do I fully understand the logic behind it.. but then, it's too late for my dear friend to change the past. You can just turn the clock back and reset everything when this is about your marriage and kids are involved.
But things would be different had my friend choose her partner first based on religion. From my observations on friends marriage, I noticed that having a spouse that has great and depth understanding of religion does help a lot with the marriage.
And this is different for those who aren't.
So many people fall in love with the outer beauty..some do get lucky to fall in love with a person who has both beauty and depth religion beliefs.
But when marriage get sour when your spouse suddenly changed from good to evil, not much you can do actually. You either try to save your marriage or divorce. And for a Muslim, divorce is one thing that Allah hates.
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