Time alocation

I NEED TO MAKE SOME TIME FOR READING . I WAS GOING THROUGH SOME PRINTED COOKING MATERIAL AND FOUND THIS ARTICLE ON PARENTING. THAT MADE REALISED THAT I NEED TO PUT SOME TIME TO READ. I LIKE READING . BUT THERE'S A BUT HERE. I'M TOO BUSY OR TOO CAUGHT UP WITH FAMILY STUFF . HOW AM I NOT TOO WHEN THERE ARE THINGS TO BE DONE ONCE I AM BACK FROM WORK .  OF COURSE THERE IS MY MAID. BUT STILL I HAVE THINGS TO DO.  I REALLY DON'T LIKE TO HAVE MY MAID TO DO ALL HOUSE WORK. I ALWAYS BELEIVE THAT I STILL NEED TO PLAY MY ROLE AND CHIIP INTO DOING SOME HOUSE WORK.    AND NOW I NEED TO SLEEP AS I AM GOING TO PASAR BORONG TO BUY SOME FISH N CHICKEN WHICH IS FOR ONE OR TWO WEEKS SUPPLY OF COOKING.  

The New Girl on the block

Yep! She is the new girl on the block. I first saw her at the breastpump service centre. There she was lying on top of the box. The owner of the service centre said that they are still checking her out. See if she is suitable and can live it to it's expectation.

And like any guy out there who are always upgrading their car, seeing that new Ardo Calypso Breastpump just fueled my interest in knowing her more. But then,  that was couple of months back.

Now  seeing her again at this online shop that i frequently shop. Ahah!!!

I don't know if  I should get it .Not that my current ameda lactaline is not functioning. Happy to say that my purchase of Ameda was worth every cents. Dah la mahal. But so far, her performance is excellent. It's much better than spectra. I have tried spectra at Seremban Hospital. That was when Aisyah was hospitalised for her jaundice that she got during her age of two weeks old.

Gonna check that new beauty now..

Sisterly Love

I can see how Aisyah just love being with her big sister Arissa. Of how happy her face will be just to see her big sister coming back from school each schooling days. Of how she laugh when her big sister tickles her body. And how she calls her big sister in her own baby language.

Of course Arissa loves her small baby sister wholeheartedly.I remember how Arissa always wanted to help change her baby sister's dirty diapers.And how Arissa always wanted to feed her baby sister solid food during each feeding time.

But there are times also when both fight for dearest mama attention. And when this happens, dearest mama will have her hands full of both of them. Arissa  would be sitting at oneside  of my lap while the Aisyah too would be eyeing for another lap to sit. And if Arissa is talking, then Aisyah too would be talking in her own baby languages.  Of course moments like this is rather handful too me. But these are precious moments that are not worth it to be nag as moments like this wont last forever. Thus dearest mama will try her best to handle those two A's.

When I looked and judged back on those things mentioned earlier, I must say that His plan for me and my hubby was the best plan  planned. There are 4 years gap between Arissa and Aisyah. Most people would say that it's a big gap . But when i analysed it back, the year gap is just nice.

The 4 years gap enable Arissa to show to her baby sister what big sister is all about. As Arissa is at an age where she can understand some logic behind certain stuff , she is able to appreciate her baby sister existance . This is based and done in her own way .  Should the gap be less than 4 years, I wouldn't think Arissa would be able to appreciate her baby sister existance . Let alone to express her love for her baby sister.

Which is why i honestly believe there's a reason why Aisyah was born 4 years after Arissa. Sometimes, we made a plan that we think is the best planned plan. But little did we realised that there are reasonable hidden reasons why our plan did not happened our way. I did look back and analised  the gap/ But it all make sense now when I see the love display between Arissa and Aisyah.  Suddenly the 4 years gap made sensible reasons that is easy to understand.

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Leslie Cheung . I'm watching one of  my favourite hong kong actors . The best part is that I am watching hong kong movie on ntv 7 . I used to do this ages ago .    A time long before my two pretty girls were born. And i am enjoying it.