These days, most of the blogspots or the fotopages are about one's parents first born. There we are, all eager to share with the rest out there all the sweet & frightening experiences , the 1st achievement of our first born. Rarely do we find such websites ( let me know if there is ) that tell us about not only the 1st born but the 2nd child in the family.
So I wonder. Will this mood or feelings be the same when we have our 2nd child? Like me and like most of parents out there, how I adore my 1st born. You will find me kissing and sniffing my child eventhough she is all sweating , bau machammm! You will find me thinking of can I store my child's unique smell( u may all laugh ok! ) so that I can sniff it again in the next 20 years!
I rarely videotape my child.But when I do, how nice to watch it again and again . Maybe that is why I salute to those parents who are so rajin in snapping photos and videotaping their child's every moves and antics. I dont even have a special album or scrapbook to record and paste pictures of my child's 1st step, 1st word , 1st shoes etc.
So will I be feeling the same thing when I have my 2nd child? I hope and pray , YES! And I will still be taking photos and videotape. But will try harder to make a set of complete album for all my children..
the 3-letter word
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