Tuesday, 21 September 2010

It can be lonely at the top

Almost everyone there,are married and have children of their own except him.But  I pity him  for not being among us who are married regardless either we have children or none.

Wanna know why I pity him ? Well , he drives a mercedes benz CLS-Class & his is around my age. This you can summed up how succesfull he is among the host's friends.

Of course everyone like to have loads of money to spend and to save for retirement age. But for me it is a sad state when we dont have our loved ones ie our spouse and children to spend & share with. And it would be even more sad when u are the only child or when your parents are dead. I don't know if this guy that I am writing about is like this. But what I know is that he is single and available but lonely to me.

Almost everyone there were exchanging news about their children. But for him, he can not do that as it would be not much to be bond with.

So when me & hubby saw him walking to his car after attending the raya open house, both of us agree that how lucky we are to have each other .Luckier too that we are blessed with beautiful children. We may be not as rich as him .But we sure are rich by having each other and our two precious children.

I believe that when one is on a higher state like him who is single & rich, finding a a soulmate will be harder . Of course we need to have good perceptions of others.But there will always be that little tiny seed at the back of our mind that says that person could be up to no good. Us being human !

And I told my hubby that the easier way out for anyone like that guy is to get his parents to find some girl who is a daughter of a closed friends. A girl that you know was brought up in the manner that suited you.

Hemmm, how lonely it can be at the top when you are succesfull and rich but have no one to share and spend with.

Thursday, 19 August 2010

Can't Get Enough of You Babe!

Monday, 16 August 2010

Cendawan Kuko & Kulat sisir



Cendawan Kuko or kulat sisir .  I never thought I will come across this recipe on internet. Not that i was searching for it. Bumped into it accidently  actually. I was searching for ayam goreng berempah recipe  & found it. But this dish just reminds me of my mom who is away now  performing umrah with my dad.

How I miss my mom's cooking especially this special dish. What makes it special is the main ingredient which is the cendawan kuko . This special type of mushroom is something that you can't get it easily from the market. And not all market except pasar tani have it. And the availability is muchly depending on the season or the weather.

And cleaning it up prior cooking is quite detail. For u may find some ulat nanti..heheheh..

Normally my mom will cook it in the gulai lemak cili api style  add with anchovies only. 

Gosh!!!! i miss my mom.And her cooking too..